You are by no means the first person with this problem, see:
http://www.adkhighpeaks.com/forums/showthread.php?t=10441 for more MSR lightning ascent failure stories.
I also have first hand experience with an MSR lightning ascent breaking in this manner. My girlfriends snowshoe broke about halfway up Sawteeth earlier this winter, after only 1.5 seasons of use. MSR was quick to replace (or repair) the snowshoe in this case as well so the company still gets a thumbs up from me.
However IMHO the lightning ascent has an obvious design flaw, where the crampon bar that supports the ball of the foot creates a concentrated pressure point on the binding when you step. As you take repeated steps the point of contact between these two wears out and the binding snaps. Once the binding snaps the rivet takes all the pressure of your step and not being designed to do so, rips out shortly after the binding breaks. A quick and simple fix for your newer pair would be to fix something to the crampon that lessens the pressure it exerts on the binding. Also be very meticulous about ensuring that rust doesn't build up where the binding meets the crampon, and they should last for a while.